Friday, May 18, 2012

When Propositioned, CA Says No to Gay Marriage…Again

April 20, 2009 by  
Filed under LGBT, Politics

Last night, Miss California, Carrie Prejean, performed swimmingly through the bikini competition.  The evening gown portion was a designer’s dream.  She was well on her way to the crown of Donald Trump’s latest vehicle to pimp Celebrity Apprentice, the title of Miss USA.  Going into the question and answer session, her closest competition, Miss North Carolina was behind by only a well sprayed hair.  But with one short, disjointed answer, Miss California became the one to assume the throne should there be any reason the newly crowned Miss USA be unable to fulfill her duties.

Reminiscent of last year’s Miss Teen South Carolina and her lament for those of us who don’t have maps like such as South Africa and the Eye-rack, Miss California was asked by celebrity judge and gossip blogger, Perez Hilton, if she believed every state should follow in the legislative footsteps of Vermont which recently became the fourth state legislature to legalize same-sex marriage.   Why or why not?  Can’t you just hear the conversation she was having in her head as Perez asked the question, “Oh no, why didn’t he ask me about world peace or my favorite color?  I love world peace, and my favorite color is red, white, and blue.” 

She started off a little rough, “Well I think it’s great that Americans are able to choose one or the other,” she said.  There’s that choice thing again.  Why is it the only choice right wingers believe in is the choice of sexuality? 

She continued, “We live in a land where you can choose same-sex marriage or opposite marriage.”  Opposite marriage?  What’s that?  I think we all know, but I’m not sure I have ever heard it put quite like that. 

Then she said, “And you know what, in my country, in my family, I think that I believe that a marriage should be between a man and a woman. No offense to anybody out there but that’s how I was raised and that’s how I think it should be between a man and a woman. Thank you very much.”  A very honest statement, and one reiterated by the Democratic and Republican Presidential candidates in the last national election cycle. 

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The same can be said for Hillary Clinton, John Edwards, and Joe Biden. 

My question is this.  How can we hold a beauty queen to a standard to which we are not holding our own President?  She was honest, she didn’t waiver in her belief, and she didn’t flip flop.  Gay marriage is not something she can support.  I’m fine with that.  We all have different opinions, and I don’t think she should be confused with the pageant winner from Wasilla.  Her sister is a gay rights activist in the military.  Don’t ask, don’t tell…something does tell me this family is a little more enlightened than many of us. 

Perez Hilton said she should have given a more politically correct answer.  To me, that’s just wrong.  I am sick and more than a little tired of political correctness.  We deserve a little honest discussion in this country…from our  “queens” to our politicians.

Comments

One Response to “When Propositioned, CA Says No to Gay Marriage…Again”
  1. Michele says:

    I don’t disagree on the principles of being honest. Fine, think it’s some rule of a book that she very likely only follows some and not all of those perfectly crafted rules that are put out there.

    She deserved not to win for two simple facts:

    1) “opposite marriage.” – ummmmmm – did I miss that memo?
    Fine she made a nervous statement in a nervous moment…. fine.

    But then there was this part.

    2) “Well I think it’s great that Americans are able to choose one or the other,” – last I checked, and it depends on the day, one can’t do that but in about a handful of our 50 states. Including what is happening in her own home state.

    Try again when it’s legal in all 50 and you still don’t agree. Be honest then – in the mean time – shhhhhh, don’t speak!

    And I am so sick of the – I have a ‘STRAIGHT’ (insert PC friend, family member, etc) who fights for gay rights. Guess what – I don’t care. Doesn’t make you any more a hero in my book to say we don’t deserve the same rights but you have friends who are …… fill in the blank.

    I don’t agree with it from my politicians and I don’t want to hear it from a beauty queen. I might have voted for Obama but on the issue of gay marriage and the equal rights marriage affords gay couples – I firmly disagree.

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